I was with my girlfriend for 8 years. We broke up two months ago because at the time I wasn't sure I was in love with her.
We've kept regular contact and even gone out on dates. While we're on the dates, we act like we're in love. She'll even tell me she loves me as if nothing has changed.
When I bring up the prospect of getting back together, she says she needs more time to figure out who she is because she feels she built her life for the past 8 years around the relationship. She says there's the possibility of getting back together, but she's neither confident or excited about it.
I don't know what to do.