I don't think he is playing you, but he just might have another gf where he is stationed. They often do.
He also was supposed to send me a larger check to take care of something, that iv been told was sent three weeks ago, but i hadnt got anything.
Military mail sometimes takes longer than 4-6 weeks. Plus the hurricane on the east cost slowed some things down, but they should be back to normal now. If you don't get the check after 6 weeks, he probably didn't send it. And don't loan him anymore money until you get that first loan paid in full. What kind of crazy person loans money to people they have only seen in person twice?
I never loan my girlfriends money. They need to act like an adult and manage their own money. I don't want to date some child or a mental midgit, I want to date an adult.
Last edited by bulrush; 16-09-11 at 10:55 PM.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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