Vergin lips

[harhar]

well i havent kissed a girl before and im just wondering do u go with the flow? or do u think about it how u do it , wot happend if she dosnt like it? is there any ways? any tips ?

Thanks

[TiM1212]

how old r u?
u go with the flow and u can never really be a sloppy kisser
my gf n i love kissing ites great

[harhar]

im 18, hehe alright thx

[Fawn]

Soft pecks on the lips are a great way to start a first kiss.
Then if your adventurous you can slip a little bit of tongue in there.
Key points to remember:
Don't make your tongue stiff as a board.
Don't shove your tongue down her throat.
Remember to swallow whenever possible. Sloppy kisses aren't good.
Don't open your mouth to wide, so that you literally cover her mouth. Keep at a reasonable width.
Go slow, your not the road runner.
Massage the tip of the tongue

Basic stuff for you to remember. Take notes if u must. lol.

[kronos51]

Yep i agree with fawn, as a guy here. Girls hate it when you slobber all over them or attack them with your tongue . Just be gentle and slow, and if you do use tongue be very fluid and gentle with it. Kissing is one of the most amazing parts of a relationship if you do it right . I absolutely love kissing.

[harhar]

oww thanks fawn , so no sloppy kissing looks like its the most important one...wot if she dont like it >_< and i screw up and i get rejected :<

[Fawn]

No problem harhar.

The more you worry and think about it the worse its going to seem. Its not that bad. Its a great experience. Just trust yourself and get some confidence going in there! No one is perfect, and you can always pick up a few things along the way.

[jb5k1]

The past like... well the last buncha girls i've been with all said that my specialty was kissing and hugging (i was like how can you really do it good) but my friend Bob was hookin up with the chick and he ws like shes the WORST kisser ever. Yea he said she was like just kinda barely kissing like little pecs and stuff and shed try and force her tongue randomly into his mouth (stiff as a board as mentioned above). I was like eww I'm never hookin up with her.

Now what I started out doin was that swirly shit just spinning tongues around eachother but that gets old kinda quick and its very amature. Just a nice soft kiss and then kinda open your mouth up a little and she should get the idea that your gonna pop in with a little tongue. Just do what you think you should do. As long as you don't bite her (which a girl has done to me... very awkward) then I believe you should be fine.

best of luck buddy!

[KirstyM]

wot if she dont like it >_< and i screw up and i get rejected :<

She's unlikely to "not like" it. Just remember Fawn's tips and go with the flow, it'll come naturally once you get started, and you'll wonder why you worried about it in the first place.

[kronos51]

Oooh yeah, forgot that about tongue. If you arent sure just open your mouth enough that your tongue could come through, she should get the hint that you want to use tongue, and if she doesnt open her mouth too it is probably a good idea to forgo it for the time being

[harhar]

thanks all! you guys are great , just keep them coming, if you have anymore tips =D