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Silvia D
Hi guys, I really need advice..
6 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend, the reason being that I felt I needed space not to actually break up and he was hurt and said that we either break up or stay together because he saw me needing space as that I wasn't willing to work for our relationship. During these months I've tried to forget him but I feel like I need to give it one last shot because I think I will regret it otherwise and in hindsight I really regret making selfish choices which I know hurt him. I think the only way to get through to him is to make a grand gesture of some sort. So what should I do?? I can't say I have a lot of money at disposal (poor student) but I want to do something that will prove how much he means to me. So please please help me figure this out! What would it take for you guys to take a girl back and what gesture would you want her to make to know that she's worth another chance?
ANY advice will be greatly appreciated!
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Forget the grand gesture, and just tell him that you are sorry. He may not forgive you, but it would be a grand gesture (IMO) for you to simply take responsibility for hurting him, and be genuinely sorry.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?