I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year. We live together with her kids full time and have my daughter a few days a week. We both work long hours through the week but typically have time to spend together Saturday nights, all day Sunday, and most of the day on Mondays. She spends more time at work than I do as she is transitioning between a full time job and being a business owner.
Over the past several months I have felt like we are steadily disengaging each other. Basically I dont get the same feeling from her that I once had: I dont feel as close to her, as important to her, as adored by her. In fact, sometimes I feel like I am just in her way; a nuisance.
I guess what it boils down to is in my eyes a lot has changed between us: the things she shares, how our face time is spent, the things she says/doesnt say, does/doesnt do, sharp decline in intimacy level, etc etc. What it boils down to is that I dont feel like my needs are met anymore and at one time they were exceeded. I love her more than I can put in words and besides these issues (which I understand could be personal not our relationship), I still believe she is the lady of my dreams......
Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated, I dont want to have to lose what I think could be a very happy relationship for a very long time....