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    younger guy question

    okay, situation: you're a foreign exchange student from germany. you're in college. you're 21 years old. and you meet a younger guy, who's a little younger... like 18 years old. would you consider dating a guy that age? that's all i'm wondering, and perhaps an opinion on the actual story:

    a german professor invited me to watch a movie this evening. not at his house, on campus. i went, i didn't have anything better to do. so after the movie, the professor introduced me to a girl from germany. things seemed to click, i was shy at first, but she gave me her email address saying she'd talk to me in german if i wanted (hell yes!) she doesn't have a phone... and well i walked her back to her dorm after the movie. i feel crazy for thinking there's a chance.

    and please respond to my ****ing thread this time! seems like every time i make a thread these days, it blows away with the wind!
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    Well, when I was 21, I was interested in older guys, so no - I probably wouldn't have dated a younger boy. Three years younger is pretty significant for a female. Sorry, hun.

    PS - it seems to be more socially acceptable these days to date younger boys... I would have been a laughing stock had I done this at 21. Times have changed, I guess.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilwing View Post

    and please respond to my ****ing thread this time! seems like every time i make a thread these days, it blows away with the wind!
    did you just ask me to close this thread??

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    He would have to be a very special guy, but it's possible.

    Give it a shot, 'wing.
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    3 years is NOTHING!

    Why on earth NOT. 21 AND 18 are extremely close in age. Love is love.

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    I once went out with someone who was just months younger than me, but it felt like I was kissing my brother! I prefer older guys...just not too old lol

    This is obviously a personal hang up. I don't see anything wrong in other women dating younger men...its just not for me

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coconut1234 View Post
    Why on earth NOT. 21 AND 18 are extremely close in age. Love is love.
    not in college. one's a freshman, other's a senior, especially if the older one's a girl.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Coconut1234 View Post
    Why on earth NOT. 21 AND 18 are extremely close in age. Love is love.
    If only life worked in cliches.

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