a couple nights ago we got in a fight and my girl left at 3am and she has no phone so i cant call her and she has not tried to contact me either. but i could go to her work to talk (if she shows up that is) but here is my problem.... i want to get her back and everything i have been reading says to stop all contact with her for 2 weeks. she left ALL of her stuff here because we lived together. we just moved to a small town and she has no family close and only one friend in town so i'm thinking she might try to get a plane ticket to fly to arizona where her dad lives. last time we got in a big fight she tried to contact him for a plane ticket. so i dont think i really have the luxury of waiting two weeks, because if she moves to arizona and i'm in oregon i'll never get her back. her friend in town emailed me yesterday saying my girl is ok and wants to come get her stuff 'sometime'. so should i try to find her and talk to her or wait until she comes back to get her stuff, which by then it might be too late. this sucks so bad! oh yeah before i read about the no contact rule i emailed her twice but not begging her to come back. in one i asked her to contact me and let me know she is ok so i didnt have to worry. and in the other i basically said i was sorry and that i love her, which i know was the wrong thing to do but at that point i didnt know any better. i just dont know what to do. thanks for any advice