Originally Posted by
GrkScorp
Honestly.., you have every right to be upset..
Nobody is telling you to disrespect his moral choice.., but at the same time.., sex IS important to you.., and it's NOT fair to you.., to not have that need satisfied.., and it's not right of HIM.., so sit there and watch.., as you remain frustrated and have that need unsatisfied..
You have to explain that to him in a way that you feel he can understand.., you probably know him best.., so you know by now how to go about talking to him the right way..
Suggest the idea of oral sex.., or just manual sex (fingering.., rubbing.., etc).., or suggest that you both get tested..
I'm pretty sure however.., that as a guy.., if you explain to him that your need for sex is there.., that you are frustrated.., unsatisfied.., unhappy.., and how unfair it is to you.., he will not have much of an issue in leaving any moral appeals behind that attach him to his quasi-virginity.., if he does.., well then.., he's just demonstrated that his needs are more important than yours.., (your sexual needs.., which are very important to you).., and do you really want to be with someone like that?
Best,
GrkScorp