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Thread: reading too much into it?? Male help needed

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    reading too much into it?? Male help needed

    Hi all,

    So i've got this male friend and we text and talk on the phone now and again. If we do speak on the phone it's for hours; we just laugh at each other and it's great. We share stories and give each other advice. Last night he gave me advice via text about a guy which was fine. Tonight he phoned me out of the blue telling me about his current situation: he's out and has kissed someone but doesn't like her so wanted my advice. I gave my advice and then he told me what he was going to do (not taking my advice) We had bit of a giggle about it and he says ' i love you [my name]' I know he doesn't obviously mean it because we hardly know each other but fact he phoned me up to tell me what he was doing? What does it mean? I'm thinking he just sees me as a friend because we hardly know each other

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    Nothing more than a friend here, nothing.
    "All is fair in love and war." - Francis Edward Smedley

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cerby View Post
    Nothing more than a friend here, nothing.
    just to give you an up-date. He continued to text me even though he was 'with this girl' and then I had a miss call at half 8 this morning off him. This has never happened before.

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    You seem to confide in each other. Great thing. Feel blessed.
    Friendship or not this could develop into something romantic over time.
    However you put too much into analizing it, you will lose touch with reality very quickly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rainbow85 View Post
    just to give you an up-date. He continued to text me even though he was 'with this girl' and then I had a miss call at half 8 this morning off him. This has never happened before.
    Today I found $5 on the ground, that must mean something too!

    You're over-analyzing and reading into everything too much.
    "All is fair in love and war." - Francis Edward Smedley

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    This guy never said "date" to you, nor has he wanted to be "more than friends" with you. So, he's just a friend. Clear communication helps. There's nothing romantic between you and him unless he says it clearly.
    I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
    (Please note, we give the best advice we can based on the information given in a post. For better advice, please include the age of all romantic partners.)

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