Alright,
Well I have been dating this girl for about 8 months (she is 15 years old) I am 17. This is her first relationship, while I have had many relationships in the past. Anyways.. she is naturally a flirty, outgoing girl and loves attention from guys. A few times this has gotten me angry or jealous? I talked to her about flirting and she has relatively stopped, few incidents here and there.. nothing enough to make me tick.
First Questionable incident:
We were in her mothers truck and I was talking to her about my prom and how none of my friends are going to it and isntead going to a Club. I told her I don't think I will be going as its not fair for her to be worrying. She said "just go and don't tell me what you do." Of course I was like.. hmm?? and I told her again, At clubs you dont dance with your boys/girls you dance sexually with other chicks and for that reason I wouldn't be going. Then she said "I would of gone if I was in your shoes."
Second Questionable incident:
One of my girlfriends cousins brought my girlfriend along late at night in a car ride with other dudes (his friends). I was at a Banquet at this time usually I hangout with her constantly. I know her cousin and am friends with him so I trusted him on keeping an eye out on her. I do trust her.. but sometimes its nice knowing you have other eyes. Anywhoo.. back on topic; One of her cousins friends "Charlie" (who has his driving licence and a car) met my girlfriend as he was the one driving. After this incident my girlfriend constantly text's him when we are together. It really pisses me off when we are making out and she stops just to write a text message. I have talked to her about this and what she thinks of Charlie and she said she will work on the texting and she "doesn't know what I am talking about with the dude."
Yesterday I was at a party and Charlie was invited.. my and my girlfriend were on the couch cozy watching a movie and Charlie was at the other side of the room minding his own business. Everything was cool, then we all went outside and threw the football around a bit. My girlfriend seemed to not be able to throw the ball to me but was constantly capable of throwing Charlie the ball (No biggy, not worried). But then we went back inside and to the basement my girlfriend suddenly disapeared and so did Charlie. I expected her to come back soon and just chilled in the corner of the basment for like 20minutes. Eventually I got tired of waiting and went upstairs and found my girlfriend and Charlie drinking these home made tequila's. I thought this was a little odd as my girlfriend hardly gave me any attention and was off talking with other dudes. This past month she hasn't been as "kissy kissy" as she usually is/was. I even took her to a movie "Ghost of girlfriends past" and we didn't kiss once through it.. usually we would be all over each other.
Third Questionable Incident:
Okay, well my girlfriend is EVERYTHING to me.. shes beautiful, nice, womanly, kind, sharing, confident etc.. but she IS two years younger and this is her first relationship. This makes her not amune to what is respectable and what is not in a relationship. She has also told me she only knows what "my love" feels like and no other guys. She told me that "she can't see being with me forever" and that "she is looking for a first relationship while I am looking for a last." Which is true.. I don't know how to play all this out?
Am I just being jealous? Too dull headed? Or what is ..up?