Were your ready to have sexual experiences with him?
See the thing is .. if your scared that's ok. It will hurt a first but, if you really weren't "ready" then it would be unbareable. I guess you need to really think about it.
I would also think it might help if your man uses some lube first. I think it might lessen the pain alittle.. Just try and stay relaxed.
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