Why are you women so easygoing around fat guys???

[distilled]

I'm sorry if this is too blunt but it's late and I'm tired. I work with mostly fat guys. A big part of our job is interacting with clients - some male some female. I've been noticing (and its starting to piss me off a little) that the women just seem more open and comfortable with the fat guys. Don't get me wrong, the guys that I work with are great and I am good friends with them. I do everything that they do (smile, be polite, chatty) but I just don't get the same response from women. So, women, what is it about fat guys that put you at ease, lol? Anything I can do? In case your wondering, I am average looking - normal build, well groomed, smell good, and don't wear anything that might scare people off.

[pisces25]

Dunno. Maybe they feel less threatened, like the 'fat' guys probably wouldn't ask them out, thinking they may not have a chance, thus the female can interact with them without fear of being hit on to.

Can't answer that. I tend to be the same around everyone, regardless of what they look like.

[smackie9]

Women know they can get more extras by dealing with fat guys because they feel they will be more eager to help them for they don't get as much attention from women......of course the above too.


To add they seem more genuinely friendlier.

[Journey2Virtue]

thats hilarious

[bcgirl]

well they aren't attracted to fat guys. So it's easier for them to be themselves and open up quicker. If there is a hot guy in the room, i know i wouldn't be able to be myself nor get comfortable around. Plus fat guys have less confidence so they'll know they can never stand a chance if they ask out the cute girl in the office.

[IndiReloaded]

They are too slow to catch us? lol. Seriously, tho, the slightly overweight guys I know seem more relaxed than many of the uptight, skinny ones. I'd date an intelligent, slightly overweight man over a neurotic, gym-junkie in a heartbeat.

[smackie9]

Ya I like a little chunk myself.

[bcgirl]

i admit, i would totally f*ck Seth Rogan

[IndiReloaded]

i admit, i would totally f*ck Seth Rogan

I had to look him up. Yes, he's got a cute geek look to him. Not sure about f*ck (looks aren't enough), but I'd certainly have dinner with him.

[smackie9]

The curly hair is a deal breaker for me.....

[sadie_genie]

Fat guys are suppose to have a good sense of humour. Same with fat chicks.

[distilled]

LOL, some good answers here, thx. Never really thought that women would be uncomfortable because of a guys attractiveness.

[bcgirl]

^ well if Angelina Jolie came up to you and asked you for directions what would your reaction be?
If Kristey Alley asked you for directions which one would you feel more comfortable with?

[CAM]

It may just be that the fat guys are nice/funny/helpful.

[CAM]

^ well if Angelina Jolie came up to you and asked you for directions what would your reaction be?
If Kristey Alley asked you for directions which one would you feel more comfortable with?

I'd be afraid that Kristey Alley would eat my lunch....literally, just take my lunch from me.

Jolie...not interested.

I'm not intimidated by good looks. Nobody should be. Metaphorically, the Jaguar is a hot looking car, but its insides are totally messed up....