So over the last couple weeks, I have started to become interest in a girl who says she is always busy.
We are both in premed students at an Ivy League school, on the track team and she also participates in music. She doesn't drink or go to parties and literally spends her day exercising and studying--which I don't mind and the motivation I actually find very attractive.
We've known each other a few years, but we both became injured and can't run so we are both stuck training on stationary bikes and are forced to sit next to each other for a few hours a week. We began snapchatting and most days the conversation goes for hours. I think we have a lot in common and although no one else on our team would've called a relationship between the two of use happening, they are now like "yeah that actually makes a ton of sense"
I asked her out before she left for thanksgiving break and she said yes. We hung out at an ice cream place, went and player billiards, then I walked her back to her dorm and she hugged me and we kissed. The next morning I saw her and it wasn't awkward and we have continued to Snapchat each other a ton, but I just never see her. I'm healthy now, so I run and don't stationary bike--she has different practice hours of me anyhow. We eat at different dining halls and she lives on the opposite side of campus.
I asked her if she was free this week and she said "depends on if I like doing homework", which I'm fine with, but then she remembered she had music rehearsal/recitals for 4/5 days and the other day had office hours but I think she had time after we could've hung out. I also asked her if she wanted to go out this Sunday, and she said that should would but then said because we have a race on Saturday we have to be at she will have to dog work on Sunday but we can do it together, but I am becoming paranoid and thinking that she is just blowing me off.
The date we went on, she seemed very receptive--touching me, smiling, hair twirling, etc, but that was over a week ago and I'm getting stonewalled, it seems, getting another date. She seems like she is very inexperienced with guys, isn't into partying or drinking and is very focused.
She's an insanely dedicated student athlete... probably spends 30 hours a week practicing and she has a 4.0 in a hard STEM field--so I accept that she is busy and has priorities straight, but I am wondering if I'm just wasting my time and setting myself up for disappointment. I'm giving her some space and she said I should come to her musical performance tonight, so i will, but I was wondering if anyone had any advice or experience with extremely busy and motivated women.