This question has plagued mankind for ages... or at least its plagued me. Over the course of my life I have watched countless friends of mine date loser boyfriends. I tell them my thoughts on the guy and say that I'm only looking out for their best interest. Only to have them tell me I don't understand, he's really a great guy when you get to know him, ect.... Same story happens every time. Their BF dumps them, they come crying to me. My theory is that some girls prefer guys that are @$$holes (hear me out) Think about it. With guys that are losers, girls don't have to worry about them being friends already. As such they don't have to risk a friendship for a potential lover. Also when a loser ignores the girl, the girl gets curious about why. That automatically means that the girl will be thinking of the loser more, as compared to other guys. There is also the phenomena that girls seem to be attracted to mysterious "bad boys"... While I'm not saying that all losers are bad boys, I'm also not saying that no losers are bad boys. Plus, girls have the "nice guys" as emotional punchbags whenever the loser gives the girl a hard time. As such the girl doesn't need emotional support from her BF. She's getting enough from her guy friends. Its crazy, that's all that can be said for sure. All we can do is hope and pray that girls everywhere will wake up and smell the coffee... yeah... like that's gonna happen. Wow, I'm really rambling now. ne ways, I'd have to say in conclusion that as long as there are losers, there will be girls falling head over heals for them. I've simple avoided those girls and found the sane ones to date.
"Experience is the name every one gives to their mistakes."