Originally Posted by
vr00mm
i also feel sorry if i let go of him cos he has to live alone without me, he got no body...
i feel stucked...
dont have the heart to take action but to stay put in a situation i am unsure of...
ps: what makes it harder for me to break it up is cos he treats me like a queen, i have nothing bad to say about how he is treating me. He adores me and never make me feel like I am obliged to "care" for him and his illness...
please help!
It honestly amazes me to find out stuff like this as the days go by.. Growing up, I was surrounded by women telling me how insensitive men are, how they stick around for the good times, and then just leave the other person when tough times come around.. How Ironic these days that the tables have turned in society.. and women have become the more primative (insensitive) of the two sexes..
First of all, I'd like you to read an article just to let you know how fast your clock it ticking.. [url]http://nymag.com/daily/intel/2007/10/in_economic_terms_you_are_a_de.html[/url]
Secondly.. mild cases of epilepsy are very treatable.. I'm not a doctor, but Lamotrigine (Lamictal), seems to be the medication of choice.. My girlfriend has epilepsy, and she takes medication, and we've been together for 2.5 years after she's told me.. during that time, she's (hit me, had her bouts of anger, etc..).. But when you love the other person.. you deal with it, especially when you know that it's not THEM.. but now it's under control..
Lastly.. You have a problem.. you're an Anna-Nichole in the making.. a world-class gold-digger.. I've re-read your post about 4 times.. and am disgusted.. I usually don't post replies like this.. but this is more than called for. "You are sticking around, more or less, because you are financially dependent on him.. which means, it's only a matter of time until you find someone else who has the financial resources, and hop on his c0ck a couple of times until he lets you move into his place.. and say goodbye to your boyfriend.." Sad, & pathetic.. See, unlike you, HIS condition is perfectly treatable, and in just months he'll be normal... YOU on the other hand have a major problem of self-worth.. you feel useless.. and hence feel the need to leech off of men.. combined with being LAZY.. YES.. if you were not lazy.. you would actually be looking for a way to work things out.. Instead.. you come to an online forum.. looking for petty excuses to justify you breaking things off with him...
Alas... if you don't change your habits.. and you do infact break things off with him.. don't feel sorry for him at all.. he's the lucky one.. he'll probably get treatment, live a normal life, and find someone WAY better than you.. If you do change your ways.. then, he'll get treatment.. have to take lamictal for the rest of his life.. but he'll be normal.. and you can actually feel (LOVE) for him.. not NEED for him as an income producing asset..
You disgust ME.. and i'm not even a woman.. you're a disgrace to all women.. get off this forum before you taint any young girls reading your post..
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