iv been with my girlfriend for almost a year now. we are in a long distance relataionship and of late for the past few months we've been getting into fights regularly. this makes me extremely frustrated. especially when we get into fights for small things.
i had a couple of querstions. i recently got a t-shirt that has a cartoon of a couple gettring married and it says 'game over' under it. i got ther t-shirt cuz it was on sale and not because i felt that way about marriage. is it wrong for a person in a commited relationship to get something like that. i thought of it as just a joke.
also, i told my girlfriend that im not really fond of the eye make up she had on that day. i explained to her that no matter what she would always be beautiful and nothing could change it, i just didnt like that so much. but she got really upset for a long time. first i was being understanding and was talking to her about it. she was still being the same and then started crying. this frustrated me alot and because of that i yelled at her. like just one sentence. and that made things really bad cuz similar things had happened before, i promised i wouldnt do it but i just couldnt control it. she called me heartless for yelling when she was crying. i was just frustrated that she had gotten so upset about it. and she said that only i would ever do something so horrible.
i do love her and it does hurt when she cries but i just get really frustrated sometimes. what do i do? was i really that horrible?
how do i make things right ?