The other night I went on a date with a guy I used to work with. He was very polite (opened the car door for me, payed for the night, etc..) and didn't attempt anything sexual but treated me more as a friend. This confused me due to going on a date with him in my town, in public, and him flirting via text message. At the end of the night he asked for a kiss, we pecked, and he waited for me to get into my house.
I found out from social media he has been dating a girl for the past 2/3 months. He never brought it up to me but as time is going on he is acting more distant and not texting me as much. I brought how I felt and he said he was distant because of stress from work and that he'll make it up to me. The other night he asked me to bring a friend and meet up with him and his friend but he told me he fell asleep when he got home and I haven't answered him since.
I feel like I'm the one who's chasing him now and it shouldn't be that way. Not sure if I should say nothing or tell him this isn't going to work anymore? We never really were anything though so I just don't know how to go out about it. Any advice would be helpful! Thanks xo