well, recently i've met this wonderful girl whos the kindest most loving person i've met (yay for me if you know my story). we've been dating for 3 weeks now and shes head over heels for me. shes not the type of girl i've dated before (sexy, dressed up, out going). shes rather shy, quiet conservative type and i'm apparently her first bf.
the problem is shes a bit rough on the outside. she doesnt dress up or wear any make up at all or trim her eyebrows and shes a bit hairy. i dont really mind if shes got some hairs on her arms but she doesnt even want to shave her legs and its very noticeable when she wears a skirt because shes tall with long slim legs. this makes me rather uncomfortable.
i attend a lot of cocktail parties and functions that requires a dress code which i would like her to come. i just dont know how to ask her to shave her self and have a cleaner looking appearance by putting some light make up. i've touched upon the subject lightly with out directly approaching her about it and her response is utter rejection saying "guys should accept what ever their gf looks like because he accepted her" "if they want things to change then they should look for their type”.
i'm scared how i should approach her with out hurting her feelings? personally i dont see how wanting my gf to look her best is anything to do with "not finding your type" i think its a reasonable request. how do i make her see in today's society shaving legs and light make up is considered norm? i've never met a girl like her before and i dont want to destroy our relationship.