ok so im 16 and she 17, weve been dating for almost 7 months. and EVERY single time I have something to do on the weekend she gets upset with me and says "ofcourse you have something better to do". But its not like im ditching her for my friends because I would prefer to hang out with her instead of them anyways. honestly the only thing I want to do is spend time with her.
But here is where the problems come in; I am an EXTREMEMLY busy person I have wrestling practice everyday, jujitsu twice a week, wrestling tournaments every saturday, Im taking 3 AP classes so Im overwhelmed with homework.
AND on top of all that stuff I have going on, I still manage to hang out with her TWICE during the week plus atleast 1 day on weekends.......but it seems like she doesnt appreciate it at all. I have to kill myself in school to get enough work done to be able to see her during the week, and she expetcs me to do that for her, so she is not appreciative of it.
I think the problem is that she has nothing to do with her time, she does no sports, no clubs, she has maybe 10 minutes of homework a night......
But its not fair because she always gets mad at me..... but im trying to build a strong future for myself with all the sports and schooling I do, but its like im being punished for doing the right thing because whenever im not with her im "doing the wrong thing"