Hi there, new to the site. I'm single of just coming up to two months, and the minute i broke up with my ex, i wanted her back. the fact is though neither of us was happy and we was stuck in a rut and I just didn't know how to make her happy any more, being in the unhappy state of myself. So i called it all off. She's now very happy living a single, no strings life, and although I struggled at first, i have now come to the terms with it all and I'm regaining any confidence I once lost and I'm back out going on dates, starting new hobbies etc. I am by no terms "over her" yet, and i still have small hopes there still maybe something may happen in the future, but for now, I am getting myself back on track.