I met this guy a few months ago through mutual friends and he really really pursued me. I admit, I really liked talking to him and his personality. He was pretty aggressive in pursuing me - I'd always get texts and instant messages, practically every day. Just less than 2 weeks after we've met we hung out at my apartment and a few days later he invited me to come over his house....we watched a movie, during which he made a move on me and we ended up making out/hooking up after (no sex though). Honestly I didn't feel it was right to do that so early on and the next day, I called and texted him and he never responded. The next day, the same thing- no response...I saw him at a friends' house and he was very different - shy and couldn't look at me. We were supposed to go out the following weekend and I messaged him about it, he also never responded. I was stood up. When he finally got back to me, he texted me saying we can stay friends...but wouldn't talk to me in person or pick up my calls. That's most of the story in a nutshell. I haven't talked to him in a while now.
I'm pretty much dropping him, I just keep blaming myself for pushing him away. Or did I? I mean, maybe something like this would have happened in the future- if not then, later. My friends who know him say he's "not worth my time," and that he's a "very flakey guy," One friend even said he was a liar...
He's had a rough past- an ex cheated on him notoriously with a lot of men, and he comes from a family that's been through 2 divorces. So, I'm guessing just from that he hasn't had the best experiences with relationships.
For a long time, I blamed MYSELF for pushing him away by contacting him so much...Yeah, I know it was a bad move on my part. I learned. But did I deserve that kind of response? I just don't want to make any more of the same mistakes in the future.