Should I tell him I feel bad?

[molimolimolly]

I like this guy for 2 years. I confessed my feelings before and he had already said no.
We remain friends until now but I still like him (well i guess he knows).



Recently we happened to hang out more with his friends and my friends.



One day, his male friend got a spare movie ticket and suddenly text me if I was interested to go with him at night. I was a bit surprised as I am not familiar with him. Since I do not know this man well and not very interested in the film, I rejected nicely.



Later that night, I happened to talk on a phone with the guy I like and he casually asked me why I didn't go out to watch movie with his friend, which made me feel quite bad.... I am just thinking... if he knows I still like him, he just shouldn't say this to me... i feel like being pushed to another guy ..



I know this guy won't like me back..but I just think as a friend he shouldn't do this to me... i want to tell him i am sad... do you guys think he would think i am silly ?

[oldskool83]

your being silly, your waiting your time. find a guy who wants to hang with you...or tell your friend, go out with me or else we end friendship.

your just hurting yourself talkin to this heap more.

[HeartIsAching]

Yep, quite wasting your time - it's NOT GOING TO CHANGE.

If you don't want to feel bad, stop spending time near him. Telling him that you feel bad is just manipulation designed to guilt him into doing what you want him to do.

[smackie9]

WTF? how old are you? Your feelings are hurt? That's your problem not his.

He was just inquiring about it, probably because his buddy coaxed or pressured him into asking you and nothing more. Obviously he had no intension of hurting you. Tip: there is always two sides of the story, so stop thinking it's all about you.

If you are that sensitive about it, stop hanging out with him. I agree with the others on this one.

[VincenzoG91]

I suspect that the guy you like suggested that his friend ask you out. If it had worked out, both you and his friend would have been happier, and he wouldn't feel the constant pressure of your attraction to him.

[molimolimolly]

Thanks for the honest comments and suggestion... not sure if he's really suggesting his friend going out with me or not..

today he sent me a V-day whatsapp greeting... =.= which made me curious again...

[Boisdevie]

Oh for gods sake how old are you? 12
You are acting like some stupid child. The guy you want is not interested in you. So, find somebody who is.