I started dating this girl I had been in the friend zone with for several months. We were more acquaintances than anything before this Summer, but we started talking a lot more over the past few weeks. The relationship started a week ago.
Even though we both love being around each other and hugging and kissing, both of us feel very few feelings of lust towards each other. The desire to ravage simply isn't there. We figured it would come naturally if we started making out more, but neither of us feel comfortable with more of the hot n' heavy stuff.
Granted, I think she's gorgeous, and she finds me sexually attractive as well. My erection is there, but it almost feels...wrong to go any further than where we are now.
The obvious answer to us seems to be that we were just meant to be friends and nothing more, but that deep feeling of intimacy is definitely there. I'd like to get your opinions on this, honestly, since this is the first time this has happened to either of us (I've not had any problems having sex with other girls, and vice versa for her).