I have 2 problems.
The first one being, I have recently split up with my girlfriend, she wanted to break and i said to her it was fine etc. but really, it's killing me, and she is getting quite close to another boy now i see. I'm really sad about this, so i ask. Shall i tell her it's her making me sad? she knows im not feeling great, but she doesn't know its her, shall i tell her its here making me feel so sad?
My other problem, we get on well enough to talk, but have had a little bit of conflict along the way, however, we're both young, 20/20, and i really like her still and want to spend time with her as friends at least! and i spent my whole birthday with her, and her birthday is upcoming and she has no intention of inviting me out for her birthday for drinks and a good time etc. She has invited other people, being some ,of my friends and hers.
Is this unfair?