Your right, I have never heard this before. I am sympathetic to how you feel about her and I am sure she is gald hat she has met you, again. The only thing I want to ask is are you afraid of what might happen? How is she? Does she seem like she can handel a relationship with you? The thing is that she sounds like she isn't very stable right now. She may not have a memory of what has happened in the past but I would venture to bet that might come back in time. Especially if she was sexually abused. which is what I think you are getting at. Sexual abuse can be very deep rooted depending on the nature of the abuse and when it actually occured. Believe me, I know what I am talking about. Tramatic events like this stay with a person forever. Each person is different. Some women go on to lead a healthy sex life others it can rally freeze them emotionally.
In my honest opinion, I would really not go there with this girl. SHe really needs the time to heal. If the abuse was bad enough to put her in a mental hosiptal, however acute, she needs the time to reall work through her feelings and try and piece back what she lost.
Please don't take this the wrong way, but, you might be confussing her with feelings that are hard for her to understand and deal with. Good Luck and I hope everything works out for you two. Time doesn't heal all wounds but it helps.
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