girl who dates more than one guy at once?

[lastwish]

What do you think about a girl who tells you that she is dating more than one guy in the beginning of a relationship? More than one guy asked her out but she isn't certain about who she wants to get serious with since this is only during the initial stage of the relationship. No sex is involved during this time of course.

[TheSphinx]

I wish more women did it.

I've found it's time efficient and adds to the quality of my relationships.

~Sphinx

[Junket]

I think whoever is dating her has a handful of competition.

[vashti]

I think she is smart and honest.

Smart because she isn't forcing herself to make a decision she isn't ready to make, and honest because she told you about it.

I wish more people did this.

[Kromat]

Most won't do this tho, cause they'll be serious right off the bat, and don't
really try out other options.
Women seem to want to commit more than most guys.
I think men do this more than women, but women seem to become more
jealous because they are wondering why you need to spend time with them,
when you already have them, It kinda gets complicated, If they aren't willing to
give It a chance.
What If they all happened to bump into each other? that would suck.
How about going out with 3 girls and your girl goes out with 3 diff guys, then you
can swipe dates, like telling them, that I might know a person, and then see how
they react to each other, and then maybe get them all together in a room and see
who's compatiable.
They might even help each other out and make things just work a lot smoother,
If they didn't know them before the night started.

[Michael6084]

For me, dating and relationships are separate things. I consider a relationship happening when things actually get serious. Dating, though, is testing the waters. So for me, dating multiple guys is fine. Dating while in a relationship isn't. The way you worded your question made me think initially "Hell No" at first.

[Only-virgins]

I would say that she is lying about the "no sex" part. You put two monkeys in a room and they will ****....no different for people. If there is no sex involved though then who gives a shit? it is like being out with a friend. The thing is that I would never believe her.

[Gigabitch]

Oh, bullshit, OV. I've dated plenty of guys I never came close to sleeping with. Jeeze.

[Mish]

Oh, bullshit, OV. I've dated plenty of guys I never came close to sleeping with. Jeeze.

I've also dated plenty of girls I wouldn't sleep with even if they were willing. Sometimes it's to protect them because there was no compatibility and thus no chance of relationship, sometimes because the attraction wasn't there.

[bloodtippedrose]

hmm.. 'Dating' means youre sifting through people to find who youre compatible with. She seems honest so if she was to start a relationship with one of them she would tell the other guys sorry :/ Just be awesome enough to win the bitch over the other guys

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[Only-virgins]

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[Only-virgins]

hmm.. 'Dating' means youre sifting through people to find who youre compatible with.

Cool, but I'll let infatuation(love) do that for me.

[Tedel]

err... Didn't you know that most girls end up dating more than men? What's the surprise there? 21st century, dude. Everybody wants to get the hot chick.

Now, if that bothers you, simply ask her to be boyfriend/girlfriend more seriously now. No more dating. If she agrees, fine; else, drop her down. She's not for you (at least at the moment).