Curious. Would help me understand women more. And also there's a situation I have where this girl I love rejected me 3 months ago. We remained friends after this but I backed off a little. 3 weeks later she started flirting back, began spending more time with me. Other signs suggesting maybe she was now interested in me. The most apparent one when we nearly kissed. Note she's Persian from Iran where kissing is only between people in love or so she says.
Now we're two continents apart for 2 months. We write to each other, talk on skype and phone. I think about her every day. I love her a lot. So as suggested by some friends on the forum I asked her how she feels about me again. She was quiet for awhile then said she needs time to think about this. I assumed this meant she still doesn't really have romantic feelings for me and maybe never will. I made up my mind to stop all contact with her and try to move on. But before I could tell her this she said "please don't leave me"! She was in tears. She said she doesn't wanna lose me (mostly likely as a friend). Now I don't want to hurt her in any way. So I'm really confused. Well so my question is why is she doing this when she most probably has no romantic feelings for me and knows that I can't be just a friend to her? Another question why wouldn't you as a woman let go a man who loves you but who you don't love back? Curious. Thanks.