Facebook hints or just good fun

[yumimami]

If a serious ex-boyfriend keeps popping up on my FB and leaving ongoing comments that he loves the songs I am posting from the 'good old days' (when we were together) does it mean that he's enjoying them or... wanting me to remember him?? Most recently he said he's put them all on his ipod. I posted them on FB for our mutual friends to cheer one up in particular but have been loving reminiscing too...and its making me miss the ex a lot. Could he be feeling the same way? or am I reading into nothing??

[carl1222]

Could he be feeling the same way?

Sure, it's very likely that he is. Just remember, before you jump in with both feet, there is a reason why he is an "ex"

The nostalgic trip down memory lane through rose-colored glasses may be making you both feel all warm and gooey inside, but unless you are both willing to address in advance the problems that ended your first relationship, a second one will probably end the same.

Carl.

[xxazurexx]

He's likely to be wondering why you are posting 'old songs' and from when you were together.

He likely thinks you are the one who is reminiscing

[yumimami]

Thanks guys, just what I needed to wake me right up =) No more listening or posting those anymore, probably best! Oh the songs were part of a circle of friends who were all posting them, reminiscing good times after a tragedy hit one of us. This is enough to put me back on track. Thanks again for answering, you both rock =)

[carl1222]

I might agree with azure if he hadn't told you he downloaded them all to his iPod. I can't be 100% sure, but I still think it's an overture on his part. If he stays in contact, you'll have your answer.

Carl.

[yumimami]

Carl, by overture you mean...? And the songs are not mushy so there's nooo obvious way to take them as subliminal messages just FYI lol

[xxazurexx]

Yumimami, don't give up posting what you like. Carry on and let him think what he wants.....lol

[carl1222]

by "overture" i mean testing the waters to see if you might be interested in trying again.

[yumimami]

Hmmm for some reason I'm liking the sound of that azure lol..