giving him space......didn't do it. did i screw it up forever?

[tahoegirl]

we hit it off instantly, sexual chemistry and personalities mixed wonderfully. next thing i know i get jealous about a certain thing and he runs the other direction. he said he needed his space. i didn't give it to him! i obsessively texted, but he engaged in it all. he told me if i had just given him his space things would have been different. next thing i know, i give him ONLY 2 days of space and he's contacting me. i thought space meant much more time. we have spent the last weeks arguing about where we are. we were first seeing each other, then friends with benefits, then friends, then friends with benefits, now again he needs his space. I don't know what to think anymore. He says he wants to only have sex with someone he is dating at this point and doesn't want to deal with girlfriend crap as he puts it, yet he still engages no matter what. Can this be fixed? Do I just let him be for 2 weeks or so? Or is this a done deal. I am sooooo attracted to this guy.

[blent]

he's using you for sex... and you're in that state of mind where you believe everything about him is perfect... just think about it a little, do you really want a guy that is willing to put you through this crap? make HIM earn the right to be with you, don't call or text again and if he doesn't respond then you've saved yourself a great deal of stress in the future

[justcheckin]

yeah I would back off and let him do all the forward stuff. Play the game. You got to. If he wants space, give it to him. If he is that attracted to you, I promise you he will notice when you DONT txt him at all.

[brookep]

It depends on what you want in a relationship. Respect? Commitment? Love? If so then walk away.