Okay. So, I have a guy friend who used to flirt, text, and talk on the phone for hours. I really started to like him, because he was just being such a sweetheart about anything.
He lives 8 hours away from me and he's in the military. He is going overseas in a week and he told me he really wanted to see me b4 he left. We used to know each other in high school and we recently just got back in contact after 8 years through fb. So, I decided to go and visit him and drive those 8 hrs to see him. I was so excited and nervous; I didn't have an idea of what to expect. Well, I had such a wonderful weekend with him. Everything was almost perfect and he was a true gentleman. I felt like we had such a connection and I was so comfortable with him. We shared everything together; talked about our past history and just really getting to know each other. There was no physical contact or anything like that, but we both really wanted to.
So, the day I went back home, it was really sad and I just wanted to let him know that I liked him. So I text him that and he told me that I only like him for his qualities but not him and that I was smarter than that. I asked him if he felt the same way and he never responded. In fact, he didn't call or txt me for a day and when he finally txts back he told me he was really busy getting everything ready to move. I just left it alone, but every since then, he just wasnt the same. He used to always give me pet names but he doesnt anymore. he used to txt me 24/7, but now I get a few txt messages and most of them are always just short responses.
Just to let you guys know, I'm going through a divorce, but he knows that I don't want to jump into another relationship. I just wanted to know, that's all. I just didn't want to think that it was just me feeling this way. It's mad crazy how I feel. I know I shouldn't be so quick to start liking someone, but I couldn't help it... He was there for me since day 1. I just feel so stupid. I put myself out there and he didn't say anything. And now he's acting like this... What is going through his head? I don't even know how he feels about me anymore.