Here is the deal...
I met a girl and I like her a lot and care about her and she likes me to, but she just got out of a bad relationship and I leave in Dec. for the military. She told me she wants to be single for a while, get to know each other better/be friends because she wants to date a friend. She doesn't want to rush into things because 1. we both want a real relationship 2. shes afraid I might screw her over like her previous ex's 3. she wants to develop deep feelings.
She believes I just have a crush on her, which isn't the case and I would never screw her over (I'm usually the screwee, not the screwer). I have told her both, but she doesn't believe me and still wants to hang out more one on one. Plus she said she likes guys to take the intiative, which is why she rarely calls or texts me.
Girls, I'm afraid that if we aren't in a relationship before the time a leave then she will just slip into the friends zone or if I meet another girl I will have to choose, which is not what I would want to do. How do try and show her that I turly like her/care about her without becoming to "stalkerish" because even though she said she likes guys to make the intiative, I still don't want to be annoying her by calling her 5 times a day and texting her 10 times. Or how do I sweep her off her feet and show her that even though we might not know a lot about each other, we should still try at the relationship. Don't get me wrong, I respect her and am all for taking things slow, but I don't want to go so slow that nothing comes of it.