I've been seeing this guy (Guy #1) for about a month... He tells me he likes me , talks about the future, talks to me almost everyday. He told me that he doesn't want me seeing anyone else and he does not want to see anyone, but me, I didn't know how to react to that, I do have another man (Guy #2) in my life (just dating) and I guess I am just testing out the waters with the new one. I feel like he's moving too fast and it freaked me out a bit, I really like him, but I'm not ready to be comiitted just yet. I feel that I have unfinished business with Guy #2 and I don't want to put all of my eggs in one basket just yet.
So last weekend I went out with guy #2 since he had just come back into town. I felt guilty about the situtation because I really like both guys and I do not want to hurt anyone, but nothing could stop me from seeing him. I felt that I needed to make my final descision. Since that night, Guy #1 has not really spoken to me much at all. He usually will call or text me almost every day, but I have heard nothing from him since Friday. This is unlike him and I feel like he knows I was with someone else. I am not trying to be malicious or trying to play anyone. I'm just dating around and trying to figure out who is best suited for me. I've been single for a while and hurt badlyin the past so I'm trying to be careful.
These two guys do not know of each other in any way, I feel like guy #1 knows somethings up and he kicked me to the curb. Unless he was spying on me or has some kind of 6th sense theres no way he would know I was out with someone else..
I don't know what I should do to fix this.. Should I call him or l give him his space? I haven't made any moves yet. I feel that I really screwed up. I could be jumping to conclusions and maybe he's been busy, but I've realized that I miss him.
Does he suspect something?