i've heard this more than once......but why is it bad? is it a turn-off?
in my experience, some guys won't even know you're interested if you do anything short of this.......
+ Follow This Topic
Results 1 to 10 of 10
-
19-02-04, 08:58 PM #1
Normal User
- Country:
- Join Date
- Nov 2003
- Posts
- 101
Why is it bad to wear your heart on your sleeve?
-
19-02-04, 09:52 PM #2
Normal User
- Join Date
- Apr 2002
- Posts
- 573
I disagree that it's bad. I think it's important that people know where you stand. There is less miscommunication this way.
-
19-02-04, 10:14 PM #3
Normal User
- Join Date
- Feb 2004
- Posts
- 25
umm... i think you do this kind of thing - to wear your heart on your sleeve- because you are not sure what things you should so in that situationm it's just like is it worth to make a move to let him know your feeling or you are afraid of this guy - isn't he a good person? - something like that.
And you cannot wear your heart on your sleeve forever, if you think that he likes you and he seems to be a good person and sincere to you, so why do you have to hide yourself for more long?
Show it to him!
-
20-02-04, 12:56 AM #4
Normal User
- Join Date
- Jan 2004
- Location
- Canada RULES!
- Posts
- 1,136
Wearing your heart on your sleeve. Its a good saying.
In a good view it represents that your honest and willing to open your heart to that person. But its also a bad thing because you can easily have your heart broken and be hurt emotionally.
Evil School!!
May not be on LF as much, due to unforeseen circumstances.
Blame College and Homework for Everything!!
-Fawn
-
20-02-04, 01:30 AM #5
Regular User
- Country:
- Join Date
- Jul 2003
- Location
- Wouldn't you like to know ;)
- Posts
- 3,538
Fawn pretty much said the advantages and disadvantages.
My New Car!! [URL=http://www.cardomain.com/ride/2058343]Cardomain![/URL]
"Be Mindful of The Future, But Not At The Expense of The Moment"
"Life is the art of drawing without an eraser"
-
20-02-04, 04:33 AM #6
Normal User
- Join Date
- Nov 2003
- Location
- florida
- Posts
- 4,614
and it all depends on if you feel the risk is worth taking.
everything happens for a reason...beginning to wonder why.
-
21-02-04, 08:24 AM #7
Normal User
- Country:
- Join Date
- Sep 2003
- Gender
- Location
- Ramona, CA
- Posts
- 2,919
"wearing your heart on your sleeve" has many different meanings to different people.
Some may say your weak.. which I happened to think is Bullshit. I wear my heart on my sleeve I dont think I am weak at all but quite the opposite! I am outgoing and dont mind taking risks to get what I want.
The disadvantage is just this... TRUST.. you as the "wearer" put your trust in everything. I know I do and since you are taking that risk, you have a bigger chance for someone to rip your heart out and do the mexican hat dance on it. However, I believe in a philosphy that helps me through almost everything.
LIFE IS TO SHORT. Be happy with what you have and make goals for yourself to achieve. Keep you eye on them and what ever happens in between.. look for the lesson.
"Remember always, that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one."
- - Eleanor Roosevelt
" It's not who we are that holds us back, it's who we think we're not."
- - Michael Nolan
"...to love and lose, is better than not to love at all..." .... Lord, whats his name....
" The world is big... I want to see all of it before it gets dark." -- John Muir
-
21-02-04, 10:24 AM #8
Normal User
- Join Date
- Feb 2004
- Posts
- 25
I like what you said, Jane.
Especially the last part.
-
21-02-04, 10:48 AM #9
Normal User
- Country:
- Join Date
- Sep 2003
- Gender
- Location
- Ramona, CA
- Posts
- 2,919
Thank you!
"Remember always, that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one."
- - Eleanor Roosevelt
" It's not who we are that holds us back, it's who we think we're not."
- - Michael Nolan
"...to love and lose, is better than not to love at all..." .... Lord, whats his name....
" The world is big... I want to see all of it before it gets dark." -- John Muir
-
21-02-04, 06:16 PM #10
Normal User
- Country:
- Join Date
- Nov 2003
- Posts
- 101
nicely said jane, i think i'd think about that a bit more. i must add that the reason i posted this thread originally is not because i am contemplating whether to 'go for' something or not, but it is something which i have heard often but don't quite understand.
thnx for the responses
Similar Threads
-
What to Wear to the Gym
By Gigabitch in forum Off Topic DiscussionReplies: 19Last Post: 22-05-07, 01:45 AM -
jack-off sleeve
By anachronistic in forum Intimate ForumReplies: 7Last Post: 10-03-07, 02:14 AM -
What should I wear?
By Gribble in forum Off Topic DiscussionReplies: 15Last Post: 18-02-07, 11:54 PM -
What to wear
By loveforum in forum First DateReplies: 0Last Post: 13-08-06, 04:11 PM -
What should I wear?
By Cutiepiie in forum Love Advice forumReplies: 23Last Post: 19-11-05, 03:10 AM
