Hi..
My boyfriend's been acting really weird lately.
A month ago we signed a rental contract on an apartment in Belgium (where he's from) but I can't move there "officially" for another 6 weeks because of studies. He says this is the main problem for the "depression" he's in atm, the fact we couldn't be together on new years eve and because I don't want to have a baby atm. I've tried talking to him about all of those things, which he claimed were major issues, but 10 minutes into the conversation, he said, "Just drop it." and changed the subject.
He's changed his facebook and gmail passwords, but checks mine every day. He takes 10-15 minutes to reply on MSN, but normally it's instant. And for the past couple of weeks, when I've said "I love you" he's replied with, "me too babe.", "likewise." or just smiled. He doesn't do it most of the time but he's never done it at all before.
I thought it was to do with living together, cold feet or something, but he's constantly telling me to take my exam early so that we can move in together ASAP, he doesn't want to wait any longer, and he won't live on his own. So idk.
Or he's seeing another girl, which is where I'm leaning towards tbh.
I've never been cheated on before (to my knowledge) and I've only ever had one other relationship which lasted for 4 years. My ex was never this way so I've nothing to go on really. Especially with it being long distance atm.
He just isn't being himself at all and he's really distant - bottling things up which is definitely NOT how he is! He's the first to tell you what's on his mind.
I'm sorry it's so long but I'm supposed to give up my whole life to be with him and yeah, idk, I'd just like some opinions please =) x
Edited to add:
In regards to the password thing (in case anyone asks), he randomly gave me his one night & I suspect he did it because he wanted to have mine - he's quite an insecure person. I've only logged into his facebook account once or twice and that was back in August when he gave me it. I haven't tried since so can't say how long it's been since he changed them, unfortunately. x