My ex-boyfriend and I were trying to be friends, but I feel like the only reason he wanted that is because I was his safety net. I felt used. He never asked me to hang out, and he would rarely talk to me. Only once every 2 weeks or so. he wasn't trying to get to know me as he had said he would. This is where I started to feel used.
1 week and 1/2 ago, he IM's me, and I really didn't want to talk to him because I felt like he only did when he was bored. So one thing led to another and I told him how I felt about the whole being used thing. I guess he took it the wrong way, and just said goodbye to me. An hour later I find a message from him in my email, and it was a message saying how much he loved me and cared, and how he will always love me and remember me...always. I got frustrated because he always sends similar dramatic messages whenever he says "his final" goodbye. Well I sent him a message trying to explain myself in case there was a mis-communication, and since I was frustrated...I told him not to run away from the problems, that it was so like him.
So my ex-boyfriend writes back defending himself, he also said that he didn't want to talk to me anymore and he wanted to get over me, with that he said his final goodbye (he also said it in a very cruel way). next day he says that half the things he said he didn't mean, and that he was sorry for the way he basically told me off in the last message.
well...I didn't respond to either message. So I'm making it easy for him.
Thing is yesterday he sent me a message for Easter. Saying Happy Easter and how he hopes everything is well with me, and he hopes I don't hate him.
What's wrong with him? He says goodbye (forever) and now messages me again?? I'm confused...if someone is trying to forget someone wouldn't they not message the person they
want to forget?