The other night I was having dinner with my friend who is engaged to my boyfriend's best friend. Apparently her fiance (Jon) told her that my boyfriend (James) has some crush on this girl he works with. When Jon met her at James's work, she came up to James later and asked if Jon was single. Showing interest in Jon and not himself, apparently my boyfriend got really dissappointed. Her fiance also said that James only wants to be in a relationship with me because it really sucks too much being single. I don't understand what I have done to make him unhappy or look elsewhere for another chick. What's even weirder about the situation is he is the type that never wants kids or wants to deal with kids. The girl he's crushing on has 3!!! What should I do? I know the obvious thing would be to dump him, but i'd also like some clues on how to handle the situation. It really just hurts my feelings because I have put so much into this relationship for pretty much nothing. I try hard so he can start liking some bigass baby factory! Sorry i'm bitter. Thanks for any advice you can give me. :-)