OK, here's one:
I posted about a week ago that my boyfriend said he's 'unsure' about us. He hasn't mentioned it since, but seems to have been making more of an effort or something, I don't know.
Anyway, since he told me he's been unsure, the sex has been better. It was always good, he's basically the best loved I've ever had. But he very often came pretty quickly, and would get frustrated with himself. As much as I tried to make him see it didn't matter, especially since he doesn't exactly roll over and go to sleep. But even the night he told me, it was better. He had a lot more stamina, which I know he was happy about, and me too, especially since it would make him feel better.
So since he's told me this he's been able to last longer. Do you think this might be because he's losing attraction for me, or is leaning more towards disinterest in the relationship? Maybe he's lasting linger because he's not as excited as he used to be - a bad sign... Or do you think he's not got this weight off his shoulders and feels more ... in control, powerful even, in the relationship?
He went away for the weekend to hang out with some Uni friends of his (primarily a female friend, her boyfriend and his ex-roommate). I have a sinking feeling I'm going to be dumped anyway as soon as he gets back, but I was just wondering about the sex thing. It can't be a coincidence that he says he's unsure, and then can suddenly last a lot longer every time. Can it?
thoughts?