i just got off the phone with my boyfriend and he told me that he's going to the bar with his friend. we've dated for 6 months now and during this whole time, he's never gone to the bar but the one night i'm back at my parent's house about 2 hours away, he wants to go out. he's told me before that his gotten kicked out of bars and gotten in fights at the bars.
i told him if he went to the bar, then i was going to go to the club next weekend with my girlfriends and he said it wasn't the same thing because he's a guy and i'm a girl and the places i would go would be dirty clubs where guys only wanna hook up.
is it a double standard that he thinks his allowed to go out to a bar with his friends but i can't ever go out with my friends?