Hi
been going out with my bf now for 18 months. he finished with his ex about three and a half years ago now but she keeps contacting him, chatting, sending him cards and its getting very upsetting. its not like she comes to see him all the time. but when she does return home from uni i know they spend time together, i even found out the last time she came home they discussed their break up.
recently she sent him a card wishing him good look in this new business he is setting up, telling him how amazing he was. my bf has the card out on a shelf.
question is, do i say it upsets me to know she still contacts him, or do i just leave it and hope for the best. every time i think she has stopped, something happens and i find out she's called, text, emailed, wrote to him or they have met up.