Go with the norm hon. Dont expect to be special. it doesnt work for other people means it probably doesnt work for u. Even if it works for other, doesnt mean it would work for you.
And yes, if he want to be in your life, he'll show it not because of jealousy
keep it simple
Self-esteem isn't bragging about how great you are. It's more like quietly knowing that you're worth a lot (priceless, in fact!). It's not about thinking you're perfect — because nobody is — but knowing that you're worthy of being loved and accepted.
"Me, I try to send this note
float it like a paper boat
But paper sinks
and words are weak
i try, but i cant speak"