Hello! How are you all?
Alright, so I live in a college dormitory. Within the last week, I've met 2 great guys that live down the hall from me. I've been spending a lot of time with one of them, "Josh". We've just been getting tea, watching movies, etc, occasionally making out yada yada yada. I think Josh is really into me....
He's a great guy and all, but I really have no feelings for him romantically. We have a lot in common, but I don't feel any real chemistry or anything. Besides, he's going abroad to Australia next semester.
It would be easy to let him go and tell him I'm not interested in anything with him, but I'm seriously falling in love with his room mate, "Carlos". I just feel a great connection with him, he's sort of wacky, I just really like him, I feel like I'm a kid in middle school again liking a boy...my heart stops when I see him in the hallway, when I'm with Josh and Carlos all I do is laugh at Carlos jokes, direct questions his way, etc etc.
Would it be putting Carlos in a terrible position if I pursue him? I obviously owe this Josh nothing! But I don't want Carlos to seem like a disloyal friend. But I mean, Josh is going far away in a matter of like a month or so, and if there really is something betwixt Carlos and I, shouldn't that make it alright?
Please some input....do you think it is wrong to completely end things (not that we're in an official relationship or anything AT ALL!) with Josh in hopes of starting something with his room mate? It wouldn't be that akward since Josh will be out of the country soon! I just don't want to come between friends....
thanks!!