Ok well the situation is simple but complex at the same time, I never really thought about asking for outside advice on this especially since its pretty embarrassing to talk about at times, but I feel an online source is the easiest way to go.
Ok well the situation at hand is simply put as I have know this one girl for like 2 years and I really like her... but when I first started hanging out with her It was weird right from the start, we were both too shy too admit we liked one another bc we both had a lot of the same friends. But bit by bit over time we would open up with eachoher and soon as we got close it was just like she got bored of trying and went with another guy, well apparently that guy was a douch so she came back onto me(which was kind of odd to me). But at the same time I met another girl that is far more open with me. And we always have something to talk about.
Basically my question is do I take a chance wasting my effort with the girl I have known for longer just for her to blow me off, and waste my chances of getting with either one? Or do I just stay friends and go with the other girl?
And too make things more complex I have stress about performance in bed, I am not a virgin but I have issues with getting too excited when I'm not hammered lol. I just feel a lot of pressure of loosening a relationship bc I can't meet her expectations. I can easily get going but about five to ten min in Im almost about to come. I am a beast at everything except penetration, and if I slow down to prevent coming she will know I have a problem cojtrolling myself and she will tell all her friends regardless if I can even keep at it after I stop.
I know that's alot but I just need a little advice so I don't screw my chances.