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Thread: I wonder what he's thinking?

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    I wonder what he's thinking?

    So just recently [meaning about a month ago...], this guy in a couple of my classes found out that... well, I like him. = =''

    See, the only thing is, we didn't talk very often to each other when I first met him. I mean sure, we'd talk A LITTLE. But nothing over.. 5 sentences.

    Now that he KNOWS that I like him, we haven't really talked AT ALL. During class, we'll make some eyecontact, but I always look away immediately. [I'm shy :[] Sometimes I think he's looking at me, but I'm not really sure.

    So whats he thinking? :/.

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    What, indeed...

    He's probably thinking "Damn, I thought she liked me, but she rejects me every time I see her now. What happened?"
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    So basically, I should just go up to him and say something?

    It's just really awkward. :/

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    Would saying something to the poor guy be as awkward as avoiding eye contact with him is? I'm sure it would be less awkward for him to have you say "Hi" once in a while than it is for him to see you avoiding him.
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    I just answered another thread and this one has almost the same answer.

    Did you know that the best way to flirt with a guy is to smile and make eye contact? If you have the balls to do that, most guys will do the rest.

    Next time you make eye contact, just give him a smile.

    So whats he thinking?
    I don't know what he's thinking but you might know. Read his body language, it never lies. Just don't misinterpret nervousness as him not liking you.

    If you catch him looking at you, he probably likes you.

    He might be too shy to ask you out because he's still unsure whether you really like him in which case you should give him more encouragement (positive signs that you like him).

    All else fails, simply go up to him, make light conversation, and then ask if he wants to hang out sometime or get lunch. If he says no, then he probably doesn't like you.

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    i suggest you start talking to him little by little again. joke around a lil bit. it will open the doors back up between you.

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