Originally Posted by
Lucy4224
Hey there,
So I met this guy that I like at uni, we've been speaking via Facebook chat and in person when we see each other around uni since April. He has mainly been the one to spark up a convo with me over Facebook and has gone from being about casual uni work to just casual stuff in general. The other night, whilst he was away on holiday with a bunch of friends, he was messaging me whilst sober and as he got drunk he started messaging me asking me on dates and how we should meet up when he gets back home and stuff. Since then, he has been speaking to me the same with no mention of what was said that night and its really starting to bug me. I want to know if it was bs or truth but im too scared to ask incase it messes everything up at uni and freaks him out, i dont want to lose a chance with him if there is one though. How do i go about this situation, i really need some help.
Thank you
Whilst walking with him on campus just casually say: "So, when are we going to take me on that date like you suggested when you were on vacation?" Then shut up and let him do the talking.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion