Originally Posted by
JaneH
I think your question is kind of ridiculous for a woman that isn't a sex fiend.
Um, what? I'm not a sex fiend, but I'm nearly 30 years old and any guy who told me no sex before marriage would be gone. Not just because of the sex aspect, but those sort of values are extremely conservative in nature, and I'm quite liberal. It would represent a clash in our moral values, which are more far-reaching than just sex.
Sexual compatibility is also a very big part of a relationship, I've said it here a hundred times. If you're going to spend your life with someone, a huge element of a long-term relationship is compatible sexual appetites/preferences etc etc. If people want to pretend like love is the only thing that matters in a relationship, they're living in la-la land.
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