I think you're putting a lot of pressure on yourself to go a long way all at once. Just take it one step at a time and go as far as you feel comfortable each time. Two months isn't that long, especially when you're only 16 and it's your first time. You'll get there eventually.
My husband and I took a lot longer than that to get to the point of having intercourse, and we were a far bit older than you. But we had a lot of fun figuring things out our first time. The people I heard from who pressured themselves into doing things when they still felt shy usually say the experience was really awkward for them.
Besides, the longer you wait, the more meaningful it becomes.
“This planet has - or rather had - a problem, which was this: most of the people living on it were unhappy for pretty much of the time. Many solutions were suggested for this problem, but most of these were largely concerned with the movement of small green pieces of paper, which was odd because on the whole it wasn't the small green pieces of paper that were unhappy.” ― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy