He's 37, I'm 19.

[holahaysus]

So I was having a conversation with an old guy friend. He's in his mid- late thirties and I'm 19. Anyway, I told him that the hours in my new job were so f***ed up. He then started laughing like crazy and I kept asking him why he was laughing so hard (never heard him be so excited). I eventually got annoyed at him forcing him to tell me- he said
'I thought you said you have more hours for f***ing now' And then said 'I forgot how young you are, I shouldn't be saying this' still giggling away. (He's always making sexual references and then saying that he shouldn't be saying them) I know 100% definitely that I was very clear and that there was no way he could have picked that up from what I said. I proceeded to say 'Yeah exactly I'm only still 19 and you're a lot older, at least wait a few months until I'm 20 and say it to me then' and he kind of agreed but was still loving it laughing away. Opinions on this guy?

[Carole1959]

Do it. Enjoy the experience. I did when I was younger he was 18 years older and eventually married him

[pcmaster]

Well if you think hes too old for you and he thinks the same way then it is like that.

I was 25 when found this 18 year old girl on internet. Immediatly after wathing her FB I said to myself - shes too young I cant trust my heart to her. And we been friends for years but I always held myself from saying sexual stuff despite that some things came out I always been holding back. At one point I noticed that if Im much nicer to her than she is then theres I could have real chance with her. But its not who I am so I wasnt acting to be nicer to her than I am. Generally if you want to take relationship to the next level then treat people better than they treat you.

[GLYC]

It's different for everyone. Personally, at 25 I'm only interested in women that are 21+ because I feel like we are closer at in values, goals, and places in our lives. If I was 37, I would probably be looking for 30+, but that's just me.

Do what you want. One woman I was dating when I was 22, broke things off with me for a guy that was like 42. She was 21, we kinda dated off and on, along with her and him, and I didn't really know how to date properly and messed up a lot, but she eventually married the other guy. I had a chance to rekindle things with her before that but I moved on. Figuring it would be easier to start over with someone new.

So yeah, for some people it does work out. It depends what you're looking for though, I like people close to my own age personally, but I'm also a guy.

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Also, the guy might be looking for a booty call. He's obviously interested in it.

For me. I never talk that way with women if I haven't been intimate with them before. I think it's foolish.

[lovebroken]

He sounds like a creep, too old for you and he should know it too. Next time tell him to knock it off he is being inappropriate with you.

[sargam]

age is just a number