Girls - Was this girl into me and wanted me to look?

[dalvien111]

So I was at some golf range recently, and there was a girl with a decent ass and her 2 friends there, and they were a bit further down from me. Anyway, her friends started saying to her that I was checking her out, so she got up on her own and bent over slowly a few times. Did she want me looking? Can provide more info if necessary.

[pcmaster]

Stop jerking off man and you will stop checking out girls and start to see them as persons not sex objects. nofap.com can help you.

[greenemerald]

I was prepared to respond to this post hoping I could contribute a woman's perspective....until I got to the "with a decent ass" part.

Even if you thought that, this is really not the right place to divulge that...especially when you are asking women for their opinions.

Women feel that they get treated like sex objects all the time, hence, they are hesitant and slightly on the defense when a man shows interest (for fear that he only sees her as a sex object and not as a human being with other beautiful qualities to offer)....until he invests more and more in her.

I am clearly the wrong person to give you an opinion on this because I don't find your question quality enough to warrant such advice.

I can see that you post this in the Teenage Love Forum. I can also see that you have a lot to learn about women.

[pcmaster]

Porn ruins the mind and thats where wrong thoughts about girls starts. Few months without porn and you start to think - thats a nice girl. Instead of - thats a decent ass.

[GLYC]

Why does it matter, you didn't take any action. They could be teasing you, or maybe she was into you. You can't read that much into these subtle things, where you messed up was not approaching and talking to her.

I also agree with greenemerald, its okay to sexually desire women, but with how you're talking about them you won't have success. Women don't want to be treated as sex objects. The truth is, women can have and get sex at anytime, easily. There's literally millions of horny dudes all over this planet that will jump at any given chance. Men that talk that way about them push them away.

Just a man to man tip for you because you sound like the guy that could probably use it. It's one thing if it's with a woman that you're already sexually active with and you're flirting with her with some sexual comments. But a woman that doesn't have that with you, just dont.