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    Is it worth it?

    I am in my 30s and my love interest is in his 40s but we are just friends. I haven't seen him in a long time and have seen recently that his health is bad. He struggles to walk, has asthma and drinks. He randomly said to me he would not be able to afford to have a family on his wage. Is this his way of saying he won't have children? I like him and I know he likes me but I don't know if I can be with someone who doesn't want a family and is unwell. I feel like I should have taken the chance years ago when the opportunity was there with him. Should I see what happens or walk away?

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    Do you really want me to dictate your life?

    What do you think you should do?
    Do you need help finding out what you want?
    If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
    I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
    If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.

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