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    Quote Originally Posted by Rosebud
    oh god, I hate it when people do that!!!!!!!!!
    Do what? tell the truth or condense paragraphs?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rosebud
    oh god, I hate it when people do that!!!!!!!!!
    If you can't handle the thorn/truth, don't crave the rose/answer...

    Isn't that what your signature says? But neo IS very blunt...

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    Quote Originally Posted by shh!
    If you can't handle the thorn/truth, don't crave the rose/answer...

    Isn't that what your signature says? But neo IS very blunt...

    ahh yes that is what is says!!! I'm just saying I don't like it when people do that. sorry if I have an opinion!
    If you can't handle the thorns, don't crave the rose!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by NeoSeminole
    congratulations! You're a slut (I originally had a longer post but I decided to condense it).
    Nope, not so much. And I think for you to say so is incredibly sexist. Why is it that its all right for a guy to sleep with a girl he's not in a relationship with but not okay for a girl to do the same thing? Its a complete double standard. I only think someone, guy or girl, is slutty if they're using sex to get someone to like them or to make themselves feel better because they don't like themselves. I didn't go out looking for it. He came to me. I haven't brought any other guys home since I've been living with him and I haven't spent the night anyplace else... in fact... I haven't had sex at all in the last 6 months because I just ended a serious long term relationship and I thought it was best that I stay single for awhile. Women should not be negatively stigmatized because they enjoy having sex with other consenting adults. And I doubt there are many of you who would turn down sex when it was offered to you by someone you were really interested in. I'm not embarrassed or ashamed and I don't regret having had sex with him. It was a bad decision because the obvious sexual tension between us makes the living situation very uncomfortable.

    And besides... I'd rather be a slut than a prude. Sluts have more fun.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rosebud
    ahh yes that is what is says!!! I'm just saying I don't like it when people do that. sorry if I have an opinion!
    Gotta agree with Neo on this one; you want the truth, come to LF.c. You want someone to hold your hand, go to "Wecatertopansyassessotheydontcry.com."

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    Quote Originally Posted by tina marie
    And I doubt there are many of you who would turn down sex when it was offered to you by someone you were really interested in. I'm not embarrassed or ashamed and I don't regret having had sex with him.
    READ: slut.

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    LOL.. That's fine Llyod, I just don't think she's a slut because she slept with her roomate. If she was sleeping around with a ton of guys every other night then yeah I would say ok. But we don't even know the whole story so i felt that was just labeling someone before all the facts were there which is what I don't agree with. That's all. I understand people are blunt and that's fine, I was just stating how I feel.
    If you can't handle the thorns, don't crave the rose!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lloyd95
    READ: slut.
    READ: hostile because nobody's trying to give me any

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lloyd95
    Gotta agree with Neo on this one; you want the truth, come to LF.c. You want someone to hold your hand, go to "Wecatertopansyassessotheydontcry.com."
    Another laugh-out-loud moment! Thank you Lloyd, you are priceless.

    Anyone who knows neo knows that he will not sugar-coat his response, and if you want insight to the male psyche, you got it. They ain't women.

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    Nice website lloyd! I agree it is a stupid double standard, but at the same time I partially agree with Neo. I wouldn't have sex with someone just because I thought they were attractive and they asked me to have sex with them. I have to be in a relationship with someone to sleep with them. That's your choice though and I would call your roommate a slut too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rosebud
    LOL.. That's fine Llyod, I just don't think she's a slut because she slept with her roomate. If she was sleeping around with a ton of guys every other night then yeah I would say ok. But we don't even know the whole story so i felt that was just labeling someone before all the facts were there which is what I don't agree with. That's all. I understand people are blunt and that's fine, I was just stating how I feel.
    $5 says she sleeps with the other roommate by the end of the weekend

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    Quote Originally Posted by tina marie
    READ: hostile because nobody's trying to give me any
    OUch. going for the jugular, huh?

    You know I'm just kidding; now how about giving me your number?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lloyd95
    READ: slut.
    Ok.. so that's your opinion! I got it! whatever, I just don't lable someone when I barely know them. More facts are coming out now, now I can form my opionion. Again, that's all I was stating!
    If you can't handle the thorns, don't crave the rose!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rosebud
    Ok.. so that's your opinion! I got it! whatever, I just don't lable someone when I barely know them.
    I label everyone:

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lloyd95
    OUch. going for the jugular, huh?

    You know I'm just kidding; now how about giving me your number?
    Ahahahahahahahahhaha
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